Xander || 22 || he/him
hi! if you're here, you probably found my carrd from twitter. it's nice to meet you!
i've tried to organize this in the way that makes the most sense, but no promises. use the icons below to navigate around, and feel free to hmu if you wanna know anything else!
about
interests
dni & tags
other socials
i've never really been very good at talking about myself, but surprise- that counts as a personality trait too. foiled again
i'm a writer and urban explorer living in central NC, USA. my biggest flexes are that i'm 5'10 in platforms (asking how tall the platforms are is cheating), i'm funny a lot of the time, and i have a cat that i frequently make bad memes out of.
i'm tired a lot of the time, so if i don't answer right away when you message me, it's very unlikely that i'm ignoring you and more likely that i'm just busy or exhausted. i'm always happy to give reassurance when needed, though.
seeing MCR on september 8th, 2021!
aw, aren't you sweet, wanting to know what i'm interested in? well, here you go! an asterisk indicates a special interest, please ask me about these!
abandoned exploration and photography* (!!!)
dungeons and dragons
indie horror games
animal husbandry
MCR's danger days universe*
alternative fashion
bandom in general, but mostly mcr* and fall out boy
if you want my hand in marriage to see my favorite abandoned place pictures i've ever taken, click below!
DO NOT INTERACT IF:
i don't usually like to make these very long, but please do not interact with me (and block me, if you'd be so kind) if you fit any of the following criteria:
if you are under 15
if you're sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, anti-semitic, or otherwise bigoted
if you think telling people to die/kill themselves/implying they should is acceptable and/or if you actively defend or endorse this practice*
if your name is violet
*this does not apply to saying this to sexual predators, nazis, or other proven and confirmed dangerous individuals. in other words, if you say this to a confirmed rapist, i don't care and probably agree with you. however, if you say this to a person you've had a disagreement with/just don't like/hate the content of/etc who is not causing significant harm, this bullet point applies to you. that's disgusting behavior and i refuse to associate with anyone who takes part in it.
tags i use
these topics don't come up often or compose any significant percentage of my tweets, but i sometimes post about (and tag for) these things:
sexual assault / rape (i tend to use these tags interchangably, so it's probably best if you mute both phrases)
drugs
alcohol
if there's anything you'd like me to add, just send me a dm! i won't question it, i'll just add it to the list of things i'll tag in the future. my format is "tw (thing) // (text)" .
oh shit, you found the top secret page with my photography! well, not that top secret since it was right there, but still- you cared enough to click it and that's really nice of you. here are my top favorite abandoned pictures i've ever taken!
hey, you made it to the end- thanks for reading! below are my other socials. i also have a discord, which i'll give out if you ask + if we're on the way to being friends.